how can i live with my loss......
no matter what the relationship the separations has been painfully agonizing.
each persons loss and suffering has its own unique quality. no outsider can ever fully enter into it. every one will suffer with some form of loss it feels like a hole has been torn in your soul that cannot be mended.
the difficult but necessary process of dealing with any loss is called grief .
most of us think of grieving over loss when we consider dealing with the death of someone we love, but if we think of loss only in terms of death we rob ourselves the opportunity to deal with the lesser losses witch will build up our confidence in Gods faithfulness during difficult times. if we do learn to grieve appropriately over the lesser losses in life then when the emotional tidal wave of grief over death does come and if its already hit will there will b inner strenth that will enable us to weather the storm.
losses come in a variety of shapes forms and sizes and with differing degrees of intensity . u may be struggling with the loss of .. your parent, your spouse, your child, your marriage, your fertility, your job, your financial situatioon, your reputation, your youthful vigor, your usefullness since retierment.
as we move through this sea called life we leave behind familiar waters that well never sail again .......the carefree days of childhood, the feel of a favorite doll, the thrill of hitting a first home run, the excitement of a first kiss, the sound of a first car, the pet we grew up, with the joy of bringing children into the world, and much more.
as we leave these things behind we grieve over their loss
it hurts to say goodbye.
we are all dealing with loss. sooner or later the things we hold dear are taken out of our hands. sometimes gently sometimes harshly but always painfully.
it is my prayer that the following pages with help to make this journey more understandable bearable and even hopeful for you. to be continued....